As the Episcopal Church wrestles with questions of blessing, we need to remember that the world is sacramental. Where there are signs of God's blessing God is present, sacramentally. Not to recognize or affirm that is a sign of spiritual blindness. While we may debate categories and theological niceties, the underlying reality is that God is present and active in full sacramental power in relationships previous generations declared unholy. Let us praise God for enabling us to see clearly what we missed so terribly over the centuries. The following is an old sermon – but I hope it speaks to the underpinnings of our lives now.
What is the most special thing for you about the Episcopal Church?
For me, I think, it is our understanding that life is Sacramental.
We don't live in a world that is WYSIWYG.
We don't live in a world of sticks and stones. .chromosomes and bones
where everything is just what it is. . . and nothing more.
When a young child goes out and picks up some special stones
and brings them to you . . . and gives them to you. . .
("I chose these for you, Mom, Grandma, Granddad, Uncle. . .")
What is the meaning of those stones?
We believe that we live in a world which is alive: alive with meaning and alive with love.
And the way those things become real. . . is sacramentally.
That's how we express ourselves
and that is how God expresses . . himself/herself. . . .sacramentally.
Do you remember the Catechism definition of Sacrament?
"An outward and visible sign of an inward & spiritual grace.."
An outward and visible sign. . . .several small stones. . .
conveying an inward & spiritual grace. . . the child's love. . .
and God's love with it.
A lot of things are sacramental.
A kiss is sacramental.
A kiss is never just four lips in closest proximity.
With a kiss, we can manipulate, we can lie. . . .
or with a kiss, we can communicate love.
A kiss is an outward and visible sign. . .
of inward and. powerful spiritual things.
In the same way, a pat on the back, a hug or embrace,
a family meal, a bouquet of flowers - those are all sacraments.
And they are all . . more than just what we communicate:
they are also ways through which God. . touches our lives.
One of the basics of the Episcopalian faith
is that God uses the physical world to touch us.
There are several "official" ways God does this:
Remember the Seven Sacraments:
Baptism: through the water,
God cleanses us, renews us, marks us for his own forever.
Holy Communion: God uses the bread and wine
to feed us/transform us. . from the inside out.
God uses the holy oil and the Laying on of Hands
to give us strength & courage. . and to heal us.
And the same is true in Confirmation:
with the laying on of hands we are strengthened, commissioned.
I had a Seminary Professor who said:
"It is natural for the supernatural to act naturally."
The real miracles happen through the touch of a friend,
through the ministrations of a doctor or nurse,
through the devotion and thoughtfulness of a teacher or relative,
over coffee or cokes, bagels or cheeseburgers.
That is how God works.
If we believe that God is love
and that all love comes from God. . . through us.
Then that is how God works.
One of the things I always try to tell people
who are getting married is this:
You are each God's gift to the other.
It is through one another that you will experience God.
It is through one another that you will --
probably in the most profound way in your life --
experience the love, the forgiveness and the healing power of God.
That is because it is through one another
that God loves us, heals us, frees us, gives us peace.
We are God's gifts to one another:
in our families,
in our significant relationships,
through our acts of kindness and thoughtfulness.
Is teaching a sacrament? Yes.
Is nursing a sacrament? Yes.
Is changing diapers, raising children a sacrament? Yes.
Is running a business sacramental? You bet.
As are planning for the future, making love,
doing what is necessary for our home to be a welcoming and safe haven.
Is the presence of God dependent on the level of our skill
or the purity of our motives?
Sometimes, as Paul wrote,
God's strength is made perfect in our weakness.
And, yes, our intentions and our dedication and our self-offering
The important thing is to remember and to trust,
First that this is God's world.
The universe is alive with the presence of God.
And second, that God is love.
God is the source of all real love . . .
and God gives that love freely. . . through us.
Whenever, however we experience real love --
as giving or as receiving. . .
we are experiencing God's love -- as well as what is in the here and now.
When we reject God as the source of all real love
by rejecting those whose lives are abundant with that love
but in violation of ancient prohibition,
we reject God.
And third, those people who are significant people in our lives
are gifts to us from God.
May we learn to treat them like that.
Life is sacramental:
God is present through the good times. . .God is present in the bad times --
sometimes as judgment, . . . sometimes as forgiveness,
sometimes as comfort and solace,
and sometimes simply as fellow-sufferer.
Let us praise God who is present in our lives
in more ways than we could ever measure.